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Hey You said this today “Giving yourself the ultimate love that you crave to give to others fully is pure. It’s honorable and fair. Because when others see, hear and feel you giving yourself the love you most deserve they will too. It’s the universe’s way of playing reverse psychology.” How does one do that? Practically speaking? How do i give myself the love i crave from others? And from where do i get the energy and joy and everything else needed to do it? How do i give myself a hug? How do i give the warmth that i lack? What should others see? That i go to a massage or eat a good cake? – Irina

Dear Irina,

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